In Gottman-informed practice, frequent bids that are answered with 'turn toward' have what effect on the relationship climate?

• A. They decrease trust and create distance.
• B. They increase closeness and trust.
• C. They have no effect on the relationship climate.
• D. They escalate conflicts.

Answer: (B)

Bids and responses shape the relationship climate. When a partner makes a bid and the other responds with turn toward—engaging, validating, and showing warmth—the interaction deposits positively into the emotional bank account. Repeated turn-toward responses signal safety, responsiveness, and care, which builds closeness and trust over time. This creates a warmer, more secure climate where partners feel seen and valued, making future interactions easier and more cooperative.