In Gottman practice, the principle of mutual influence fosters what outcomes?

• A. Increases control by one partner
• B. Cooperative decisions, reduces power struggles, fosters respect and closeness
• C. Decreases trust
• D. Has no impact

Answer: (B)

Mutual influence is the practice of both partners shaping decisions together, recognizing each other’s input and working as a team. In Gottman practice, this leads to cooperative decisions, fewer power struggles, and greater respect and closeness. When couples share influence, they negotiate, validate each other’s needs, and collaborate on solutions, which strengthens trust and emotional connection. It’s not about one partner controlling the other, nor about eroding trust or having no impact—the healthy expression of mutual influence is equal partnership that brings partners closer.