Provide an example of a structure for problem solving used in Gottman therapy.

• A. Identify the problem and blame one partner.
• B. Define the problem, identify the underlying needs, generate possible solutions, evaluate solutions, pick one, implement, and schedule follow-up.
• C. Skip discussing the problem and proceed to resolution acceptance.
• D. Schedule a single follow-up and end.

Answer: (B)

Structured problem solving in Gottman therapy emphasizes a collaborative, step-by-step path from conflict to workable change. The best option mirrors that approach by first defining the problem clearly and neutrally, then identifying the underlying needs driving each partner, brainstorming multiple possible solutions, evaluating those options, choosing one to try, implementing it, and scheduling a follow-up to assess progress and adjust as needed. This reflects the method's emphasis on turning solvable disagreements into concrete plans through each partner’s needs being acknowledged and a clear plan followed by accountability. Blaming, skipping discussion, or ending after a single follow-up don’t provide the same collaborative, systematic framework for resolving issues.