What is the focus of the fondness and admiration system?

• A. To schedule chores
• B. To measure sarcasm levels
• C. To increase negative feedback
• D. To foster positive feelings and respect between partners

Answer: (D)

The focus of the fondness and admiration system is to foster positive feelings and respect between partners. In this part of Gottman’s framework, couples intentionally cultivate warmth, appreciation, and admiration for one another, which builds a gentle, supportive emotional climate. By regularly expressing gratitude, noticing each other’s strengths, and sharing fond memories, partners reinforce positive regard and trust. This positive emotional bank makes the relationship more resilient during conflicts because each partner feels valued and connected, not just negotiating problems.

Other options miss the mark because they focus on tasks, scoring behaviors, or increasing negativity, none of which capture the purpose of nurturing warmth and respect.